Recently i found out my girlfriend (now ex) had been cheating with her best guy friend on me for over 5 months. she was mainulative and threatened to kill herself when i questioned her about it. we have been on and off where both of us have been breaking up with each other and gotten back to each other, the two times i did it i was apologetic for obvious reason but she wasnt when she did it, even not caring when i told her about it, she likes to bring up the fact i did but not that she has done it more and worse. i feel horrible for losing her but she didnt even care about me. i know i shouldnt have done it but considering she threatened to kill her and showed heavy manipulation. after i stopped playing into her mindgames she started to cheat with him. while she distant herself from me rather spending time with him than me. and now we are here, am i in the wrong?
While i dont know every detail, youre not in the wrong. Cheating is a huge deal for most and the reactions that follow. Hope you get over it ok
a big part of me still feel like i’m in the wrong and could have fully pretended everything that happened, she said she lost feelings after the 2nd (last time) i was the reason for us going off for a bit which was at this time i stopped playing into her mind games and was more reasonable
althought im pretty sure that is the reason for it i still feel upset considering we would have still been together if it wasnt for me. and i have alot of regret cause of it